Pamela A. Gray

WEST BOYLSTON-Pamela A. (Wilkman) Gray, 54, passed away Friday, November 22 at UMASS Medical Center joining her husband, Steven D. Gray who passed away in 2022 and their beloved son Aaron, who predeceased them in 2011. 

Pam leaves a daughter Stephanie “Milo” Gray, a brother Douglas Frieburg of Hardwick, a sister Linda and her husband Robert Mulhearn of Holden, a sister Ann Marie Smith of Pawtucket RI, a brother Robert Smith of Titusville FL, a brother-in-law Douglas and his wife Roberta Gray of CT, a sister-in-law Heather and her husband Troy of Charlton, Stephanie Powell and Katie Laliberte of FL, and many nephews and nieces, and long time friend Jan Orrico of Worcester.

Pamela was born in Worcester, daughter of the late Judith Wilkman, and later raised by the late Robert and Helen Smith. Pam attended Worcester schools, and later earned a bachelor’s degree from Fitchburg State College, where she also excelled in playing basketball, earning several awards. Pam was the manager of Gray’s Limousine in Boylston, a company founded by her husband Steven in 1986.

Pam enjoyed spending time with her family, always enjoying beautiful views of nature in her backyard. Pam loved to travel, including many cruises with family and friends. She also had many pets, including turtles, cats, and dogs to name a few. Pam also enjoyed trips in their RV with her competitive show dogs, winning many awards. She was a longtime supporter of the Jimmy Fund Boston Marathon Walk, even walking the full 26.2 miles once, and Toys for Tots.

A Mass will be said in Pam's name on January 26 at 10am in Our Lady of Lourdes Church, 1290 Grafton St., Worcester. All other services are private.  In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the college fund of Stephanie Gray in care of Unibank c/o Stephanie Gray, 29 Galaxy Pass, Sutton, 01590.